I need some advice

Published on March 1, 2006 By ----- In Dating

Well, I've slowly gotten over my past act of stupidity when it comes to love.

However, now...I'm sorta, kinda falling for a girl who works at a coffee shop a block away from my house.

She is around 6'2", has blonde hair, bright blue eyes (They drive me nuts), and she has the best personality. When I go over there, and she is there, She and i chat while she does her thing. She's friendly, nice...(G'ah!) What am i to do? I want to ask her out, but...I stutter when i try to... I also feel bad... On two levels, the first cause i feel as though she'll spend one date with me and run screaming...

I'm a nice guy, but....)

~Lucas

Comments

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on Mar 02, 2006

No help? *sighs*

Though, it wasn't like i expected some any...

BlueDev

on Mar 03, 2006

I don't really know what help to offer Lucas.

Being self-confident is one of the best things you can do. Pity will only get you so far, so talk to her and then just step up to the plate and ask her straight up. Make it something simple, something non-threatening, something where there will be other people there. Makes the whole first date thing easier.

Don't worry about what she will say or do, just ask her because you would like to spend time with her, and that will come through.

just john

on Mar 03, 2006

BlueDev hit it on the head. When it comes to women if you don't appear confident you will get the brush off. The things to remember, lucas, is that there is a fine line between confident and cocky and even though humor might be a good sell, if you use too much, you blow the whole confident appearance away.

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on Mar 27, 2006

Well, it fell through...

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