From someone who has trodden a similar path...
This is a blog concerning the recent (ongoing?) flamwar between MarcieHelen and LW. It's mostly leaned towards MH.
Okay, i've been in and out of JU for the last few days and i've noticed the fight. *grins sourly* I'm concerned, why, because i see someone going down the same road, just in a different vehicle. You messed up, but instead of stopping, admitting that you had screwed up. You raged on. IMO, you wrote before you thought. Yes, LW can be...blunt and forward at times. And bases a person on what people write/say here on JU (As does everyone here, whether its right, accurate or anything of that sort is irrelevant) Thats just who she is, *you* can't change it. She truly cares about people. I have first hand experience in that. She saved my arse from being screwed, blued and tatooed when i acted stupid. *You* have to work on you first. *Then*, you can work on your relationship, only once you have you taken care of and sorted out, will anything gell. Take some time, alone, with out your significant other, to re-discover yourself. Let the stress ease. You don't seem to be able to take blunt forwardness very well, my suggestion is to take it in moderation. Think before you reply, not always is the first way of comprehending something the correct way. As for your accusations, you've been proven wrong. Buck up and admit it. Okay? From what i have read of yours here on JU, you a unique and gifted person.
Take my advice, don't do what i did. I did the *exact* same thing. It sucks being on confinement. But I realized what i did and have changed. I can understand that stress can be harsh, and at times killer. Don't let it be.
Take Care.
--Luke